priorities priorities
its the only thing left when it comes down to making a deep hard decision
to determine once and for all, what IS the objective in the end.
because every objective, is achieved with a different step and decision. and the outcome is different.
we can try to compromise, but there is never a way, never, to please everyone in the end.
n u just hope ppl will understand, and see the way u see it. its the only way.
i realise as more and more critical decision making falls into your hands, the more ppl u will tend /be likely to hurt along the way. and it's inevitable. no1 likes making decisions that will hurt their friends or any1 for that matter. but it afterall, as said, boils down to..
Priorities.
which differ subjectively according to every individual.
thus making it harder to achieve a one way solution.
so in the end. some1's got to make the call. and it's not easy. but it has to be done.
phew....
1 comment:
Decisions cannot be avoided, more so in our profession.
Decisions should be made according to rasional thinking, which means emotions SHOULD play no part in the decision making.
It applies to all aspects. Emotions are often selfish but when trying to make a decision, one has to think of the bigger picture and thus, eleminating all emotions. As long as you can keep the bigger picture before anything else, I'm sure the decision will be a right one. People may hate you for it, but rules and regulations are there for a reason, to give objectivity when deciding and to suppress bubbling emotions that may blur the clearity of mind and the fairness of judgement.
So, don't listen to your emotions too much, and think more rasionally using the rules, regulations, law, ethics to guide you.
But midget, you are an emotional person. More emotional than I am. And it works for you as how detachment of emotion works for me. You have a good heart, midget. Just remember that sometimes, getting emotional just causes more harm than good, to yourself or to others. Being selfish here, I'd rather you hurt others than yourself!! Be TOUGH!!!! lol
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